Getting Your Best "O"rgasm
Although many sexual activities can be enjoyable, we are all after that wonderful orgasm. Some individuals might have no problem reaching their pleasure high, while others find it more difficult to reach the big O. This article will consider a few ways in which you can get to your best orgasm:
Masturbation. If you make a point to masturbate regularly, you’ll understand how your body works. This will also allow you to communicate your wants and needs with your partner. You can’t expect them to know everything about your body if you don’t.
Extend foreplay. The more we cuddle, kiss, hug, and bond before sex the more oxytocin is released which can enhance your sexual performance and orgasm experience.
Try different positions. Explore and try out all kinds of positions during sex. Some of them are known to lead to a bigger and better orgasm for both parties.
Double Time. If your g-spot is getting the attention, there is no shame in having a little helping hand on the clitoris. This could be done by you or your partner to boost your pending orgasm.
Delay pleasure. Another great way to get to your best orgasm is to initially delay pleasure. Instead of speeding to the finish line while having sex, play around a little by teasing each other and withholding just before you are about to orgasm. Building yourself up to the point of climax can lead to bigger and better orgasms.
Exercise Your Kegels. Keeping your pelvic floor muscles strong is crucial. Kegel exercise is a great workout for your pelvic floor and can potentially lead to better orgasms.
These are just a few ways in which you can ensure bigger and better orgasms. If you feel like your sex life is a bit dull or that there might be an underlying problem, sex therapy might be a useful tool to unpack other issues.